Timmy will never feel comfortable and will always be on guard for the next shit show. He shouldn't have to be subjected to them for the rest of his life. Also your mom is an AH as well for enabling her husband and son. This is NOT pranking its bullying pure and simple. Are you going to allow these people around your future children? OP How do you not see that these people are psychopaths?! Also- are they actually sorry for what they did? For some reason the other guys never prank me. Will he go to the hospital like a pussy?". 3d renders. And what happens when the relatives start to "test" and harass their kids? Let them sulk. Id make a police report and go no contact. ESH except your fianc. They literally could have killed him. NTA but that will change in a hurry if you ever expose your fianc to any of these people again. I suffer asthma and it is not something to joke about. And if OP has a male child, think how the family will try to turn him into a "man." Cut her some slack. He sounds like an absolute caveman needing to prove physical prowess to compensate for knowing your partner is clearly intellectually superior. They have it, but it burns everyone around them. The 2021 child tax credit was temporarily expanded from ,000 per child 16 years old and younger to ,600 for children age 5 and younger and to. Also tell the four muppets that it's 2022 and it is not normal to bully the man your daughter/sister/niece/cousin wants to marry. They are a bunch of nasty men and they have created the wedge with their ridiculous behaviour. What would they have done if he got sick or died? she said her step-sister, who has now changed her mind and would like to go to the concert and, as a result, she no longer wants to go with me. Its your responsibility to make sure your family members are abusing your partner under the disguise of tests and pranks. The straight chess and hypothetical situations could be ruled as pranks and family making sure the new guy isgood enough(very archaic I know). Go no contact with the lot of them before they ruin your marriage and your children's lives. Put it back on them. I hope he can see sense and decides not to marry you, you let them bully him for WAY too long. Demands were never gonna do shit, actions were. Youve subjected him to a lot and youve let A LOT slide. Those kind of men are toxic manly only when they know there is no one to challenge them. At a guess, because lil Timmy isn't one of "them". Hell, you might be the asshole if you don't press charges. I definitely would have pressed charges. And they could have hurt him. Theyd get one prank. Im waiting for the post here titled Would I Be The Asshole If I broke off my engagement to a woman whose family has been terrorizing me?. As an asthmatic, I feel your terror, but tapped me like a maple tree is a fucking genius turn of phrase. This! Time to go no contact / extremely low contact. I would stick to not inviting them. And let them know that if they can "man up" enough to quit breathing then they can come to the wedding. Break the cycle of toxic behaviour so your kids dont have to live in constant fear of their family. Obviously plenty of couples choose to be childfree or go for adoption, but if OP wants to have biological children with her husband then can she really leave them in the care of her parents knowing that an asthma attack will be treated as "learn to breathe better you whiny brat"? Rejecting feminine things like healthy social connections literally shortens their lives. I hadnt seen a doctor in a decade due to lack of health care and this guy straight up told me he hasnt either even after a heart attack. Keep asking why. Tell them they need to apologize and gain respect in your eyes .. Tell them that their insecurities about how manly they are is showing loud and clear to everyone. yeah, what kind of balanced human being needs to ask reddit if this kinda shit is ok? She has a shitty family and needs to go to therapy to unlearn the unhealthy dynamic she grew up in. It isn't easy to do; it isn't easy to learn when to do it. NTA. Last week, They took Tim on a 3 day trip and hid his inhaler, he left them and returned in 7hrs and told me, I was seething after he said they admitted to hiding it as a "challenge", I exploded on them when they returned. My dad told me everything about their divorce and how awful my mom was. Enough internet for today. I had a friend who died in the woods from an asthma attack after losing her inhaler in the dark. You should have charged them for that and shutting this shit before the incident. I will say though - you NEED to go to bat for him more. NTA and also I think is healthy you take some space away from your familytheir idea of manliness is so backwards. Dean and Kevin never had a good relationship because they never wanted my mom and dad to separate in the first place, they resented my stepdad and limitied contact once they moved out. Completely agree. You also suck for waiting this long but at least you have done something now. Is it possible she thought she was doing you a favor letting you off the hook since she knew you really didn't want go in the first place? I personally have no qualms with cutting people out of my life if they're cruel or indulge cruelty. In what world is hiding critical medication and slashing tires "pranks"? NTA and I can see this being a dealbreaker for Tim unless you go low to no contact. God I hate people. They should deal with the consequences. NTA They really need to understand that their action could have had serious consequence (luckily it didn't). Rejecting feminine things like healthy social connections literally shortens their lives. But I keep refusing to re invite them. NTA she was totally unconsiderate to you. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Also, his son lived with us for three months and hates my mom and I simply because she didnt enable him like his father does. My dad is technically my stepdad but he is the only dad I have ever known. Thats risking someones life, its criminal at this point! I agree!! Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. To cut a long story short, I realised quite quickly in my older teen years (17) that my dad manipulated and gaslit me throughout my childhood and my mother was never the villain. If I were Tim I'd be questioning the marriage with a hostile family like that. Slash my tires? Sounds like Tim is the only real man among them. Not only would I keep them disinvited, Id go no contact completely. OP grew up with this. All they are doing is trying to determine if your fianc holds values like them or not. But my point stands that this is gaslighting and the AHs are so obvious its painful. They committed destruction of property at the very least. That was about two years ago, fast forward to now. Yeah, OP said she demanded they stop in response to the earlier incidents too. And op's mother is part of the problem, asking Op to "be the bigger person". NTA. NTA OP, but I wouldnt let them around your husband because they did endanger his life. That's what I was thinking & why I suggested elopement. Or do they just think hanging with your family is something you have to rush like a frat? I agree. YTA for allowing it to get this far. Or the time they slashed his tired??? Seriously, OP has definitely shown Tim her priorities. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. There's being funny, there's being annoying, there's bullying and there's torture. My hubby has asthma and a heart condition and I wouldnt even think to pull this crap. They're being defensive because they can't imagine this ending in death. NTA. Oh wait. this rubbed me the wrong way but i said fuck it and bought a ticket (90) because im a pretty shy person and thought this would be a good opportunity to get out my comfort zone! NTA, and im sorry, also FUCK YOUR DAD, as your post says " he was abusive in everyway, but a master manipulater.". Ugh. NTA. They think it's ok to abuse and bully others. NTA. If someone slashed my tires they are paying or i am calling the police.the men in your family are immature bullies. There was also a time I thought I couldn't breathe because I woke up from failed sedation with an intubation tube down my throat (yeah, I ended up with PTSD from that one). Not to mention, destroying someone else's property is not a prank, it's criminal behavior. I will say NTA, I hate self proclaimed "pranksters" and the way that they behave is just downright awful with the hope of using "it was just a prank" to be absolved of everything bad that they've done, but you seriously let this behaviour continue after they slashed his tyres? And then expect better from family. The question shouldnt be whether or not theyre invited to your wedding. Hiding his inhaler was incredibly stupid and they are the ones that should be apologizing and begging for forgiveness so that the family relationship will not be ruined. Hiding lifesaving medication is not a prank, not even if they say they were going to give it back. NTA They could have killed him, he should press charges. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I'm surprised he wanted to go on a 3 day trip with them after everything else they've done to him. Your male family members sound like toxic sexist AH, who love bullying under the pretense of how manly they are. You're not exaggerating. OP, I'm sorry you grew up in such a toxic-masculine environment. Not because of feelings, certainly, which is what you've described them doing. Exactly. He sabotaged your relationship with your mother and hurt you in the process. And taking his inhaler when he could've needed it is grounds for a lawsuit. I've had male coworkers of a certain age come to work with unrelenting chest pain. This type of ban/suspension is issued by the Reddit site-wide admins. I hope they compensated him for the slashed tires! The family is lucky they haven't called for a restraining order. You don't have to tell me about how awful some doctors can be. It's not funny, it's messed up. Right now, do not pass go, do not collect $200. It's not funny and it never will be. NTA. I dont like knowing these guys are running around. He's the "type of man" you decided to marry and that's all they need to fucking know. Abuse. NTA. Im surprised Tim didnt break up with her over it. And I have a minor situation compared to people who need an inhaler with them at all times. 100%. Like, Tim is well within his rights to leave this shitshow if she doesn't follow through (as he should be), but it sounds like she's been trying to get them to cut it out since the beginning and this was the final straw. A prank leaves people laughing all together over something silly and stupid. Slashed tires and stolen inhalers aren't pranks, they're crimes. Dad needs to know his approval would have been nice but is not required. OP, these arent pranks. Am I crazy or is OPs bf a saint for putting up with this for so long? of abuse? Be a man!!!. These guys are bullies. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. This goes way beyond a "prank". Can't people with asthma die from an asthma attack? You're TA for continuing to subject your fiance to them. They are bullying. I would completely remove my fianc from any further contact with my family if I were her. Tbf I think she didn't know until it happened .. the men side of OP's family seem very toxic and misogynistic as well.. they probably won't include a "woman" in their plans Yeah. Is this the future you want? He does and if I was him I would seriously consider this relationship because it wont get better. Husbands family in the other hand probably won't like the reception. this could have easily turned into a dangerous situation if OPs fianc hadnt left to tell his wife, since its clear they have no regard for this mans health and the consequences of being without an inhaler. The man could have died or faced serious injury without that inhaler. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. I advise you to go NC with your family. Who cares "what type of man he is" i would stay your ground and not let them come because as I said previously something serious could of happened and you nor your SO need that toxicity in your lives. NTA. I almost never respond to posts, but I went through almost this exact situation with my father and sympathize with you heavily. I was sitting down looking at daddy-daughter dance songs when I got the urge to just text and confirm he will be able to make it to my wedding. northwest livestock facebook page; missing chicago man pueblo county jail number pueblo county jail number This is no joke. You should have nipped this in the bud after the first incident. Middle of the night call to wake them up hysterical, "He still isn't back, he isn't answering his phonehave you heard from himwhen do I call the police and report him missing?". What is going to happen if you have kids? Stand your ground and protect your fianc. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. They never thought lesser of me for being a woman, or my best friend for being gay. I agree because it will only get worse and what if they have kids? I had a fever of 102 by the time he got the boot. What they did was just so cruel. Doesn't make him soft, The men in your family are obviously deeply insecure, if they feel the need to hide someone's medicine so they can get one over on the "college kid". By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Slashing my tires- vandalism and theft.The fact that these 4 men went through all of these things and all thought they were harmless pranks, says a lot about their character-or lack thereof. NTA. Tow it to a tire shop. AITA for uninviting my cousin, brother, uncle and dad to my wedding over a prank? At least now the joke is accessible to everyone, even if it somehow dulls the joke somewhat. Asthma can be lethal, especially in a wilderness situation like camping. NTA. Having to replace all four tires is no joke. And if so, would that change if he were to get seriously ill or worse? Dude yta for allowing this to go on as long as it has. What if he had an asthma attack and couldn't breathe because he couldn't find his inhaler? Imagine if he had - oh, is it funny to face a murder charge for hiding an inhaler? These are all bullies who've been allowed to reign free. Frogs in beds is the kind of thing you do as a KID at CAMP. And I'd say their behavior is not funny nor normal. Yea those are pranks. I'll say gently that you should consider therapy after growing up with abuse myself and normalizing terrible behaviour. Your fiance is a saint and by everything sacred in the world must he love you alot to stick with you! maybe they'll change their tune about "pranks" after that. Dont be surprised if Tim calls it off. The reality is that your fianc and how he feels is more important to you and none of the relatives care about either of the two of you. but the money isnt the problem, im just annoyed with how it all happened. Their pranks went from wildly inappropriate to outright dangerous. They took time to think then gave me an ultinatum stating that if our stepdad is coming then they won't be. Its also not a prank if not everyone is laughing. Everyone here takes the right choice as a foregone conclusion, but Id spend days having a panic attack if that was thrust on me. I doubt she will stand up to them further. That kind of behavior is toxic and pervasive. He needs to ends this before these monsters end up murdering him. They will have to live with the consequences of their "funny" prank and I find them being uninvited "just as funny". 1) I doubt she's using his real name. Or not even cut them off, just make sure I am not in the position where they could do that to me again e.g. Untreated asthma attacks have long lasting consequences (I have asthma and can attest). I know I'd be done after the tire slashing incident. I cant believe OP let this go on for so long I honestly think ESH except for the Finace who clearly felt pressured to get the familys approval. Will they get the same abuse? Definitely NTA!! I would have dumped OP a long time ago. NTA. Idiots. NTA all the way. NTA by far. They are crimes. Their own insecurities are on full display. You are NTA unless you reinvite them. lol they have lost respect for your fiance? However, when Wife is changing the diapers Husband will often enter the room and insist she smile whilst doing so as it may affect the child emotional state. AITA for uninviting my stepdad from my wedding so my brothers could come? As a guy, this is beyond "toxic masculinity". It's just a prank! Tbh the fact that they did this shows me what kind of character THEY are and honestly, i would have kicked them out aswell. Your family has driven the wedge, not Tim. Have your fianc sit down with the four of them (with you present) and tell them to their faces they are not invited. They have already stated they do not respect your life partner. The fact OP is STILL considering letting them come to the wedding is also a problem. This relationship is toxic for your fianc. Wow, what the fuck?? Just they just seem like big bullies to me. Also criminal mischief. OP, better keep that shiny new spine and stop accepting this toxic masculinity. She cussed me out for prioritizing my hateful and cold hearted brothers over my stepdad and showing him that I'm not worthy of his grace which was really really hurtful for me to hear. Nta. Tell them you are reporting them to the police for attempted murder and get a restraining order. NTA, that's not typical "men stuff", your dad, uncle, brother and cousin are bullies. this type of toxic masculinity is why men die so much more often from accidents and suicide. Tell Tim that loving you is not a free invitation to be disrespected. Conditional NTA depending on how you behave from now on. I remember when someone first suggested I was being emotionally abused, I thought they were being ridiculous. Literally willing to risk everything to be with you. You suck too btw. And to also add that theyre belittling his mental health too. Theyre bullies & bullies only learn when someone stands up to them. Interesting how these "pranks" appear to involve illegal activity. They literally slashed his tires? First have the conversation with your fianc if he even wants them there. NTA depending on how severe his asthma is then no inhaler = death. They maybe expected him to go buy tires and change them by himself instead of getting help or the car taken to a place that fixes these problems? Don't just uninvite these people from your wedding; uninvite them from your and your fianc's lives. To be honest car repair shop still works. They've done that to you too. I feel good because after years I have finally set a boundary for myself but I also feel sad because I always imagined my dad being there on my special day. Fuck 'em. Fuck them. If they don't go NC, I can definitely see cousins bullying her children for being "soft" because their dad and grandpa said Uncle Tim is soft, too. Do not just uninvite them from your wedding, uninvite them from your life. This guy could describe all of this behavior to a third party and leave them thinking hes being stalked by a violent gang after witnessing a crime. I'd protect him & any future kids you have with everything you have in you. But yeah of course the real assholes are her family. If you still get married don't be surprised if he wants to get out of every family gathering etc if he can to avoid them. NTA. Contest mode is 1.5 hours long on this post. Um you both didnt cut off contact after his tires were slashed? NTA. NTA. They all sound like the very worst the patriarchy has to offer and the fact that you are still in regular contact with them and subject the man you love to their dumb bullying is worrisome, to say the least. You can certainly take them on trips and include them in the family activities and all that, but always follow the number one rule of life, Don't be a dick. OP, how have you not filed a police report?? I barely have that wherewithal NOW, and I'm into my 30s. I might have bailed by now. Things like tattle tail and what not is a typical response from bullies and reading all this has bullies written all over it. Your fianc is your new family and he deserves better than this. Yeah- it bothers me that OP calls slashing someone's tires is "a prank". Heaven forbid you have a son that needs an EpiPen with these monsters around. I see other people saying this is not pranks but bullying and im like bruh they hid his inhaler!!! They are just immature jerks. NTA. AITA for uninviting my stepdad from my wedding so my brothers could come? YTA to let these pranks happen to him for way to long, Lol how was she letting the pranks happen? That's what I said in another comment too. What a bunch of toxic people. I'm on the road at 3:30am in NYC so mass . NTA. "Like real men. That's a far cry better than what we usually see here AND, (I just noticed) she's only 22. NTA but considering the shit theyve put him through even before the inhaler prank, Im surprised it took you this long to put your foot down. Honestly the fact that you're asking that question makes me wanna call you an asshole. It's not fun. - Reddit, I mean GONDOR calls for aid!! She should at least have offered to find buyers for you. If you dont draw a line in the sand their nasty toxic behaviour (so called pranks) will never end. Dude's absolutely like this with avoiding healthcare of any kind (conspiracy nut who's spiraled imo in the last few years) and has bullshit rules about what he (and others) "should" be doing instead of "being lazy". You need to distance your family from you and Tim or you might live to regret it. He'd still be here if his thinking wouldn't have been "I'm not going to the doctor, they just find things wrong with you." NTA. If my fianc dumps my to escape my fam I would hate myself for the rest of my days. Screw the wedding, you should never speak to these people again. Be sure to throw in about how they are sissies and not very manly for not making it through this simple challenge without help. I am assuming your fiance has been putting up with this out of respect for you and your family. What if he had an asthma attack? "I'm getting married, I want my kids there, as well as my nieces/nephews, and a handful of other kids from both families.". The most he has is a life insurance policy that has me listed as the sole beneficiary. NTA ! They fixed their own cars and were proud of that. NTA - I would suggest checking in with your fianc on how you can best support him and letting him know you stabs by him 100% (this should include after the wedding) It seems strange that the tire slashing wasnt the last straw but it will only escalate if you bend. Fuck those guys. NTA He was constantly belittling my efforts, my masculinity, my profession, and my art. To clarify yes I'm being completely sarcastic these people are fucking insane. So it's safe to assume they would have stopped pranking after they "accidentally " killed him? Put it on what respect can Tim, and YOU, possibly have for them after this? The opposite in fact. See you after the wedding, assholes. pranks have no lasting impact, aside from a shared laugh in the future. If my partners familt slashed my tirrs as a "test" I would have RUN from you and your toxic family! I mean, they sound basically awful (and essentially bullies) anyway, but that pitches them from 'boorish' to 'sociopathic'. Her family is toxic. It took quite a bit of analyzing past incidents and months of research into the topic before it really sank in for me. This is the man you are going to marry. Stick with your opinion you are not exaggerating. No amount of masculine hobbies excuses that. NTA, but if were your fianc I would not marry into your family. Cant you do the same for him? NTA - They tried to kill your fiance. The man you want to marry has been shamed, had his property vandalized, been made uncomfortable, and his health, possibly life, endangered. Before they say their next word have him explain this is what true strength is. Any children you have could possibly be in danger from them, too. OP this is a hill worth dying on. live happily now :). Your family ruined the relationship and they should be thankful if you and your fianc/husband ever even talk to them in my opinion. I agree. They're not idiots; they're psychopaths. Your question shouldn't be about uninviting your asshole family, it should be Being in that environment sounds toxic as hell. It was terrifying, and I was so mad that they hadnt told me it was going to happen. "Garage" or "Auto Shop" work well too, but can be a bit ambiguous depending on context, as garage also means where you park your car in North America, whether it's at your house or the larger undergroud lots. He said its not fair she gets everyone and he gets no one. Timmy isn't the one driving the wedge. But you and your fiance know it could have easily been fatal. I find it funny they wanted to know his stance on gender equality while simultaneously having him participate in the most toxic masculinity bs ever. Or messes with someones health as a prank? That's alright up bullying. I wouldve made them pay me the full cost of buying a new inhaler to replace the old one. Family or not I'd be pressing charges. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. NTA for uninviting them. this. Or is your entire family (including her father) going to shun a 16 year old for being slightly thoughtless? This! If someone pushes waaay too far after being told to stop many times, they need to face the consequences of their actions. There was nothing boarderline about this it was harassment and they endangered his life on purpose. I was so mad at the timing of that because I couldn't do nearly as much as I wanted to on that trip because of that unexpected expense. What they did could have KILLED your fianc. For example, i won a scholarship through my dads work two years in a row and only had two tickets for the ceremony. Exactly. If your mom doesnt see your side dont invite her either. They could and should be arrested for slashing tires and hiding the inhaler. Therapy can help too. I will say though - you NEED to go to bat for him more. Your male family members seem to think petty crime is pranking. Her brothers don't care enough to be in her wedding if they are in the same room as another person they don't like. This is not pranking, its cruel bullying and taking away your fiancs inhaler could have had deadly consequences. The next step would be giving him flowers that set off his asthma. You have some choices to make, and your male relations are 100% on the hook for that. NTA for uninviting them. violence isnt just physical aggression against an individual.) You need to cut contact and tell your mom if she doesnt see why then she gets cut as well. 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